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So, who are you? This simple question is far more profound than anyone think. Think deeply on how you want to define yourself. Answer this question first before you continue reading. I bet you you will be one of the people that I will mention below.
Most people read themselves according to their career, success, relationships and daily activities. This interesting book "welcome to crisis" questioned readers in this sense and laid out that people confused themselves with the things that they do every day (which I TOTALLY AGREE after she point this fact out). Ex: I am a sales person, that means I like interacting with people or I am a doctor because I like helping people out. Does this mean you are someone compassionate that u became a doctor?
How we define ourselves contribute in our vulnerability and resilient towards life events. Our personality, beliefs, upbringing and culture contribute in defining the person we came to be. Its the accumulation of years that define us what we are and maybe, MAYBE in ten years time, these traits in us will change. Defining who you are is definitely a continuous life journey. Because a life changing event that can happen in seconds/minutes/months will influence the person we are that will change our perspective in life.
Currently, at this moment though, WHO ARE YOU? Define yourself and write it on a paper or on microsoft word. Get back to it in two years time you will see whether anything has change so far and let me know. :)
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Its true.. Until now, i don't know who I am.. I have bigger dreams b4 but now, nothing seems to work.. haha
ReplyDeletegelak plak. I know me too, i cant answer this damn question. well answer this three questions to make it easier. one sentence for each question ok?
ReplyDeleteWho are you?
Who were you before your last crisis? (Crisis is like a life changing event)
WHo do you fear?
WHo do you Wish you were?